Work. Work. Work. Carpool. Laundry. Work. Groceries. Clean. Work. Sigh. Life occasionally gets stalled in the mundane lane and one day you realize the most important words you've exchanged with your spouse in weeks are, "We need milk." My husband and I fell into this trap and although we knew we needed to reconnect, we couldn't figure out where the "time" was coming from. It was impossible for us to escape for a day, let alone a whole weekend. I was surprised to find out that, if …