The French have an expression that goes a little something like this, "Voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?" Okay, fine maybe it's Patti Labelle, but it's an expression I like to toss out to my husband occasionally. We are after all, married, and in love, and we all need a little cootchie coo every once in a while right? The problem is the products of too much loving (kids) can impede your need to get a little more. What do two consenting adults do then when they need a little alone time? They …