Ah, the holidays. A time to pause and reflect on the wonder of the season. It's the time of year we slow down to enjoy it all. Riiiight. I don't know about you but as slow as it seems for December to get here, it feels like somebody throws the calendar on warp speed December 1st. Am I right? I've got concerts and fundraisers and parties and dinners thrown on top of all the regular things I do that don't take time to pause and reflect, like work and my children's extra-curricular activities. It …