Would the advice for my daughter be any different than the advice I was given when growing up? When I was about 5 or 6 years old, I remember playing in the waiting room of the doctor's office with my grandmother. We had been talking about "what we want to be when we grow up" at school lately, and I suddenly I announced to my grandma "I want to work in a doctor's office when I grow up!" My grandma, delighted, asked "so you want to be a doctor?" I shook my head and pointed to the …