By Candace Derickx And so it happened. On a recent trip south with my girls, they noticed. They are eight and ten now after all, so naturally they are beginning to note that men and women wear wildly different attire to swim in. Some wear bikinis, some wear one pieces, some wear swim trunks and some, well some wear Speedos. And it was the Speedos that were causing them to stare, mouths agape, horrified looks in their eyes. So, I leaned over to them at the pool and said, "You know what …