It's a New Year! And a new approach to life and a new you and a new us! Just kidding. We're all — you and us — pretty great the way we are. You won't find the writers here going on about how to make it all better, or new, or trying to revolutionize anyone's lives. We're all doing our best, and while we can all tweak a thing or two every once in a while, what sometimes works best is sitting around with girlfriends, bouncing ideas off each other or just talking what ifs. And today …